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Waking up that Sunday took all the strength in Ara, how she wished she had the strength to tell her parents she didn't want to go to church, but she knew there was an unwritten rule in the family of Adepoju that no member of the family is permitted to stay in the house on Sunday morning regardless of how you were feeling.

 She knew there were so many school of thought regarding the essence of always going to church, that since God was omnipresent then people didn't need to go to church anymore, they could just sit in their house but her parents would never agree to that.

After the general devotion in the house that morning, Ara went back to her room for her personal devotion, as she opened her daily guide and saw the text of the day, she knew her days of hiding away from God are over.

She started her prayers

Lord, I am sorry for my rebellious attitude all these while, I know how I haven't acted in the right way with Mofe, I apologize for all the times I have disregarded your prompting concerning this case...

She prayed some more and got up from her knees to dress up for church.

***

In church that morning, her Sunday school teacher had talked about God's love for man.

'In our generation, it seems more people are finding it hard to be able to grasp the concept of God's love. They think God's love is abstract, but let me tell you, God's love is real, it is as real as the day. And if we as individuals have come in contact with with this love, then it shouldn't be very difficult to extend this same love to others' Bro Theophillus preached with so much vigor.

About twenty minutes later, the bell rang for the closing of the Sunday school, students from various classes assembled together for the review of the lesson.

Afterwards, the praise team went to the altar to usher the people into the presence of God.

Bro Seye the man leading the worship session was a man highly yielded to the Spirit, she remembered some months back when the man sang the same song that has been in her heart all through the week. If it had been one of the new songs she wouldn't have been surprised, but it was one of those songs that was referred to as ancient. It was very obvious that he was a man who had a relationship with God unlike other worship leaders who the only time they worshipped God was only on the altar.

He started that morning by telling everyone to drop whatever baggage they have brought to church, and to fix their gaze unto God the author and finisher of our faith.

He started singing

Spirit take me than my feet could ever wander and my faith will be made stronger in the presence of my saviour...


The choir couldn't lead people in praise session that morning for the presence of the Lord was thick in the auditorium. She loved this about her church unlike others who regardless of the move of the Spirit must still dance.

The choir soon came up for their rendition, they sang Kadosh by Pv Idemudia

After the choir ministration,  pastor Buying mounted on the altar.

'While I was trusting God for the word he would have me deliver to his people this morning, the Lord imimpressed it upon my heart to talk on the topic 'Cast the stone'

After the reading of the text, the pastor spoke the word with so much passion that Ara had no choice but to pay attention.

'On that day, our Lord Jesus Christ taught us a very important lesson that transcends time, that he who is without sin should be the first to cast the stone'

'In the world of today, we are usually very eager to point accusing fingers at others, we are always very quick to judge others while exonerating ourselves'

'Can I ask a question? The pastor asked

'Go ahead Sir' 'Yes Sir' Answers came from different angles

'Is there anyone in this gathering who has never, I mean never ever, done some wrong all through his/her days on earth, let that person stand up'

The church became quiet, it was so quiet that one could almost hear if a pin dropped.

It was there and then Ara suddenly understood what God had been trying to communicate to her Spirit all along that although almost everyone in the congregation had been washed in by the precious blood of Jesus, but everyone had done one thing or two that they are not proud of in time past.

The pastor continued

'If Jesus could forgive that adulterous woman, if one who knew no sin could forgive someone who has sinned, how much more we who have erred in more ways than one' Pastor Niyi paused and looked round the auditorium.

He continued

'Christ taught us never to cast the stone no matter what, then if you are a child of God, why are you doing that? Pastor Niyi ended his sermon with that question. He prayed for grace upon the congregation to make the necessary amends.

***

When the service was over, Ara couldn't get over the impact of the sermon, she sent a message to her parents who had a meeting to attend that she had gone home. She got home and locked herself up in her room asking God for mercy because she knew she had behaved rashly in Mofe's case. She who had once erred who didn't want to forgive another. She prayed with tears in her eyes in Spirit and with understanding. She sang the choir ministration over and over, saying yes to the will of God.

***

That day after service in Mofe's church, he had a prompting to go to Ara's house, he told his pastor about it who prayed for him for and left him to the grace of God.

***

After over one hour in prayers, Ara came out of the room famished. She was about frying the egg for her yam when her phone rang, she checked the screen and saw that it was Mofe calling her.

'Good afternoon' Ara said

'Good afternoon Oluwashindara, I'm on my way to your place' Mofe said not knowing what her answer will be.

'Okay, I'm at home' Ara said to Mofe's relief.

***

Some minutes later, she heard a knock on the door, she knew it was Mofe because her parents never knocks the door, and by the time she got to the door, she saw Mofe all dressed in a black suit.

It was the first time they were seeing each other after that terrible day in the park, that was over two months ago.

'Good afternoon, come in' Ara said when she could find her voice.

Mofe came into the house and stood in the center of the sitting room.

'You can have your sit Sir, what should I offer you? Ara asked

'I will have water' Mofe replied

As Ara went to the kitchen, Mofe didn't know what to make of Ara's behavior, he expected every other reaction from her but not what he was getting. God must definitely be at work here' Mofe thought to himself

Ara soon came out of the kitchen with a tray containing a bottle of water and chips.

'Let us go outside' Ara said carrying the tray ahead of him.

They sat under one of the trees in Ara's compound.

Mofe drank from the water on the tray to buy time to be able to coordinate his thoughts.

'Ara, I'm sorry' Mofe said looking at the face of the woman he love.

'I should be the one saying that, I have been behaving as though I am a more holier person than you which is not true considering the things I have also done in time past too' Ara said looking at the floor.

'Can you please forgive me for the stress I have put you through these past months' Ara asked

Mofe couldn't believe his ears

'Of course yes' Mofe replied

Then they both stood up and hugged each other with each person repeating the word 'I am sorry' over and over.

'Ara, what changed your mind? Mofe asked smiling when they had both sat down

'God had been talking to me for a while now, but He spoke in plain terms today in church. I would be a fool if I still refuse to forgive you ke' Ara replied eating out of the chips she had brought for Mofe.

They thanked God for restoring their relationship and promised each other  that nothing would come between them again.

Ara's parents came back form church just about that time, Ara's parents greeted them and went into the house.

After chatting for a while, Mofe left Ara's house thanking God for how the day's events had unfolded.

***

Ara is dancing with Mofe while the live band invited to play at their wedding reception was playing, looking into each other's eyes their thought seems united thinking back to where God had brought them from.

Ara, a lady who had been careless with her body, and Mofe who had been responsible for the death of a lady and an innocent child.

When it was time to catch the bouquet, Tara one of Ara's colleagues had caught it with the other bride's maid teasing her about when to come and eat her own firewood jollof rice.

***

That night, while they were in the hotel they had lodged before going for their two-weeks honeymoon in a ranch in Ghana, they had both knelt down to thank God for hitherto he had helped them. Mofe served them communion and they ate it.

***

Their story is of God's faithfulness to give his children, Beauty in place of ashes, oil of joy in place mourning, and the garment of praise in place of the spirit of heaviness.

***

The End

March 28, 2019 No comments


It's been over three weeks since Mofe confessed his past to Ara. Ara had refused to pick his calls, the whole issue was really telling on her as she finds it difficult to even concentrate in the office.

The last thing on her mind was seeking God's face concerning the matter, she knew what the mind of God will be forgiveness, and she wasn't ready to do that.

She remembered the words of her brother the day she called him and explained the whole matter to him

'Ara, are you God? Nifemi had asked her

'Of course not' Ara replied rolling her eyes at the question

'So, if God had forgiven him, then who are you not to forgive him?

'It's not like that, he was actually the brain behind the demise of a lady and an innocent child na' Ara had said in a bid to make her brother see the reason why she couldn't forgive Mofe

'Have you ever sat down and wondered his current state of mind or how much he must have blamed himself in time past?

Nifemi had paused and continued

'I am finding it even difficult to believe that it's you talking. We both know you are not a saint,  or have you forgotten your escapdes with those guys in a hurry? Nifemi enquired

Ara felt bad that Nifemi was referring to events that happened so long ago.

'I have told him and he has forgiven me' Ara said with a note of defiance

Nifemi decided to calm down

'Ara, I wouldn't claim to understand how you feel because I have never experienced this before, but I want you to know that forgiveness is not what we do for others, it is what we do for ourselves. I also want you to know that whatever the reason, God expects forgiveness from you. If the lady's parents have forgiven him from their heart, I don't see a reason why you shouldn't. We all make mistakes you know' Nifemi had advised.

They had talked for some minutes more before Nifemi ended the call.

That was a week ago and Ara is nothing close to forgiving Mofe. There are times she wish she can place a name to what she is feeling in her heart

Am I angry?

Am I hurt?

Did he betray my trust?

Why am I finding it difficult to let go?

Those were the questions always playing through her heart.

She got a reminder on her phone giving directions to a program she had indicated her interest in going. She was supposed to go with Mofe but with the way things were between them, she knew she would be going on her own.

***

When Ara entered the hall that the program would be holding, she was surprised to see over 100 people as early as 10am in the morning, she had thought she would be among the first to arrive, apparently she was among the late comers.

The program involved worship, games, networking, and the main teaching.

The man who was to take the main teaching mounted up the platform and soon the whole atmosphere was charged through the words coming from his mouth.

The man started with a popular worship song and soon started his talk.

'As Christian Singles living in the world at this time, if there is anything that we are often battling with, then it would be the issue of being sexually pure in a sexually compromised world. We are currently living in a world where all adverts and seemingly harmless movie all point towards sex. How many of you agree?  He asked

Almost everyone raised their hands

'It is becoming more difficult by the day to stay sexually pure in a world that thinks it's impossible. Let's look at how being sexually pure can become 'easy'

'Sexual Purity often becomes 'easy' when you are surrounded with people who are of the same mindset, people who irrespective of the odds against them are willing to keep themselves sexually pure too. According to the statistics, 60-70% of people who are no longer virgins will agree to the fact that they had sex for the first time just to feel among'

The teacher paused  briefly and almost immediately, a brother from the back shouted 'preach it sir'

Almost every one in the hall started laughing, Ara also joined in the laughter.

After the laughter subsided the man continued

'Since most of the people they called friends were doing it, they also didn't want to termed a novice. And if people who are still virgins also want to be factual, asides God's help, the next thing holding them is because being disvirgined will remove them 'from their group'. Associations makes and also destroys depending on the people involved'

'While being a virgin is not the hallmark of being sexually pure, because we now have technical virgins who although haven't being to Jerusalem but they have been to Judea, Samaria, and other parts of the world'

Ara found herself smiling at the man's choice of words, the seminar really reinforced her commitment to remain sexually pure.

The man spoke for about twenty minutes more on the need to live sexually pure life, that asides the fact that it honours God, it also makes the individual involved a better person who has a grip on his/hersef.

Ara left the venue in a more better mood than she arrived in.

***

Final Episode will be out next week




March 21, 2019 No comments









Mofe couldn't sleep throughout that night thinking about what Ara said during the day.

***

Ara noticed that things were no longer the same between her and Mofe. Their communication was not as spontaneous as before, today was the second day he had not called her on a roll which was so unlike him, she decided to put  a call to him.

He picked the call on the third ring

She talked first

'Hello Mofe, how are you doing?

'I'm doing good and you? Mofe replied although his voice lacked the playful tone with which he always talked with her.

'I'm fine too' Ara replied

When there was silence at the other end,she continued

'Mofe, what's wrong, you didn't call me through out yesterday. What's the matter, please tell me' Ara pleaded

'We need to talk' Mofe said simply

'Okay. Where and when?

'I'll get back to your concerning that. Enjoy the rest of your day and take good Care of yourself' Mofe said and ended the call.

Ara couldn't help staring at the phone in her hands.

'What have I done to deserve this treatment? She kept asking herself.

Mofe called her during the week and they fixed an appointment for Sunday evening at the garden not too far form Ara's home.

***

The week went in a blur for Ara as she was expecting to hear whatever the challenge may be. Although Mofe had called her every day after she had accused him, their call never went past the customary greeting and asking of each other's welfare.

After lunch that Sunday, Ara had Left her parents in the sitting room to go and relax in her room. She tried sleeping but sleep eluded her,so she brought out the book she was reading for the month 'Beautiful in God's eyes' a book written by Elizabeth George.

She read for about thirty minutes before dropping the book to put on something suitable for her date with Mofe. She opted for a multicoloured gown and a black slippers, she applied gloss to her lips, picked her purse and left the house.

She got to the park before Mofe and sat down on one of the benches scattered around the park. Few minutes later, she sighted him alighting form his car.

He got down and scanned the environment looking for her, after few seconds later she saw him coming towards where she was sitting.

'Good evening Oluwashindara, I'm sorry for coming late' Mofe said when he got close to where Ara was sitting

'Good evening to you' Ara replied

He asked about her week and as she answered, she couldn't help but notice the look on his face, he seemed to have grown older between the days she last saw him.

'You said we need to talk, so what is it? Ara asked after an uncomfortable silence

And then it happened, she thought at first that it must have been her eyes deceiving her, but on closer look she knew she was right.

Mofe was crying.

His tears affirmed that what was coming was going to be very terrible news.

He cleared his throat and started in the most sober voice Ara had ever heard.

'Oluwashindara, since you told me about your past, I have not been able to coordinate my thoughts. What I am about to tell you happened a long time ago but I think you deserve to know. When I was in the University, I was a play boy, sleeping with anything in skirt. I was in a steady relationship with a lady then, her name was Elizabeth and I felt something different for her that was not the same for other ladies. She loved me dearly as I was giving her all the love and attention that she never got from home'

He stopped and continued.

'I was able to control myself for a while but along the line, she also joined the list of the ladies warming my bed. After a year of regular sex, she came to my room one evening to tell me she was pregnant. That was the worse news anyone could tell me then. I told her we couldn't have the baby as we were both preparing for our final papers. We opted for the easiest way out, abortion' He stopped and looked at Ara's face for any reaction.

'Continue, I'm with you' Ara said surprised at how calm her voice is when she was shaking inside.

'The evacuation was successful, but two days after, I received a call from her friend that Lizzy was being rushed to the hospital, apparently the process was not as successful as we thought. When I got there, the lady I saw on the bed didn't look like the Elizabeth I knew because she had lost so much blood. Seven days after, she died right before my eyes' Mofe finished with tears rolling down his face.

Ara was finding it hard to believe her ears

'What! Mofe so you're a murderer. And it didn't occur to you to tell all this before now. You even made me feel as though I was in the wrong this whole time not knowing that you are even more terrible than I am' Ara knew she shouldn't be say such things but she was past caring.

'I'm sorry, please forgive me. It all happened in the past, I am a new person now' Mofe said pleading

'I don't think you know the meaning of that word 'sorry', you might go and tell that to someone who cares because I don't. I can't be with a murderer' Ara picked up her purse, stood up from the bench and left the place.

Mofe couldn't stand from where he sat, it was as though a force held him down. He dialed his pastor's number.

'Hello Sir, I have told her like you advised' Mofe said

'And what was her reaction?  The pastor asked

'Not too good. She left here in tears' Mofe said, remembering Ara's tears brought fresh tears to his eyes.

'Don't worry, let her go. I'm sure the Lord who has forgiven you will also prevail over her heart as well'.

'Alright Sir. I called to let you know. Bye bye sir' Mofe said and ended the call.

He waited in the garden to get his thoughts together before driving home cos he wouldn't want to be involved in an accident.

***





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